Life lesson that I am currently beginning to understand. In life there is a road called beginning to deserve. People in this world are currently living in the world of give, all about me, and want. What have you done to deserve? We are talking about anything from love to being happy and money. This road sometimes many people don't want to travel because it details work and service to many.

To change your life you must begin with being self sacrificing and humble. This is the open gate to being blessed and deserving. I have started with myself. What can I do to make things better for me in order to help someone else? You have to begin the effort to think and wonder. I have opened up my mind to start this journey to deserve what I want out of this life.

Beginning the steps to deserve. Think of what it is you want no matter what it is you'll have to start working towards it. I am working on being healthy so I have to have a plan, discipline, learn and make time to work on deserving a healthy life. You've got to have patience with self and people patience because on this journey you also people won't understand in the beginning. Challenges will come but give yourself time to learn and grow into.

The value of deserving will start with you putting in work. Don't ask to be given or make everything about you. Develop the skill of earning everything in life and giving for the vault of blessing will open wide.

Today I have noticed that we are getting closer to a new year. I haven't really noticed the days passing because I have been so blessed to see the next day. I woke up this morning thinking about what I have to do today besides my appointments.  So, people that know me know I start my days off with God, meditation and people to motivate me. This morning at 5 am Titus Unlimited live @5 gave me something that I really needed to hear. Raise Your Standards was the topic. So it made me look at myself truly this morning. Everyone knows lately that I have begin my fitness journey again after a year off. He made me realize that I haven't truly been giving my all and my standards have been low. I know what I need to do because I have did the personal training/nutrition certification.  Me viewing myself what got me is that I want to be a certain way physically but my standard is it will happen when it happen. My effort is not full but it is there.

Raising my standards will make me focus more, my discipline will be on track and my visions for myself will come true sooner than later.  Most of my beliefs have held me back. I remember many times in my life I have placed high standards on myself but I lean on the old familiar you know them. What people think, family beliefs, fear, negative self talk that make you become hostage to low standards. Right now what is most important is who you want to become, be and life that you want to experience in the now.  Raise your standards but remember it's about you not others. My fear was becoming an island, guess what I am already there with what I am doing because none of my friends are into fitness like me.

Take that look at yourself to see where you want to be and your standards for you will be yours not others so don't let that hold you back.