LETTING GO

Sometimes in our life we have to let go of some people. Not because we don't love them but because we out grow them or they are not bringing value to our lives. We try to hold on to them because we've known them for years or out of fear.  Fear of being alone or fear of not finding someone else.

At time we come complacent with people because we are comfortable with them around. At some point in time somethings are better left as mere memories. You can't go backwards. The season for them in your life has ended. Look beyond that relationship/friendship.

It's time to let go when things are no longer the same. You realize that your ways are different and there is no connection anymore. Don't hold on because of time or emotions. We all change this is the process of growing.

Let go when you know that in your heart you can't trust this person anymore.  Ask yourself why is this person in your life when you know they can't be loyal. You don't want to bring onto yourself frustration, tension or anger. Let them go!

Release yourself if you are not clear where the friendship/relationship fits into your life. This can be confusing, now you don't know where you stand or where they stand in the relationship. This can lead to damaging to you. You don't deserve to be miserable or unhappy.

Let go if you are fighting to make it work or get what you need out of the friendship/relationship. No one can make you happy if you don't make yourself happy first. This doesn't encourage who you are. All relationships must be supported. If you are changing and growing but the people in your life are not it's time to Let Go!

​Make YOU happy.