TAKE BACK CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE

Today I realized that I don't have total control of my life. Somewhere I lost control of my life. Here I am on a journey to live a simple life and somehow I have been distracted from that mission. 

I have given up my power to say No. Where did I become such a yes person?  I thought I had given up the life of being a yes person. No had become my new thing when it came to family and certain people in my life.

I have to really get back to it. There is nothing wrong with saying No especially to people that hinder your growth. You can't save everyone. Sometimes people have to look in the mirror and take control of their own life.  Everything in our life we have created, so why should we feel it is someone else job to fix when we made a mess of it.

Me taking control and getting back to saying No will save me but it might hurt someone. That's life. Everyone must take a look at where they are right now and take control back. Don't let people around you make you feel guilty for living your life. No more codependency. No more ​sacrifice.

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