WHY HEALING DOESN'T HAVE A TIME LIne

Why healing doesn't have a time line? Question I always ask myself when I can't get over the next thing that has happen in my life.  Do we ever heal from anything totally? The next question I am seeking the answer to.  Trying to understand, I have to look backwards to move forward.

Moving backwards there is a chance of getting stuck. This has always been my problem. I get stuck in that old hurt or pain now I have set myself back from my current healing process.   People sometimes don't understand your process in healing because it is not their process. I know everyone have heard someone say "Get over it" or Get Pass this".

Think of healing like a wound. Some wounds heal quicker than others and some internal wounds never heal but we carry time in the shadows of our hearts and mind.  Healing is all an individual process in that person's life.  People who heal quicker than others think something is wrong with your process of healing.

To me there is no time line.  Also I believe you don't have to stop living because you are still healing. Life will continue to be a journey of experiences.